That Rare Breed Is You
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It's been a long day and you feel pummeled. Not everything went as planned -- come to think of it, nothing went as planned -- and you grope for hope. You check your attitude as you buckle your seat belt, refusing to submit to the trivialities of the workday. You remind yourself that your strength of character is reflected in your behavior under minor stress; good days are around the bend and things could be a lot worse -- the routines of the mind to assist in your transition from rattled to relaxed.
The key slides into the ignition and cranks over the engine with a zoom signaling that part one of the day is over, no small feat. You feel free for a moment, the tether that binds you is given slack by the forward lurch of your vehicle, your private space that moves you to your next task site or playground, objective or challenge. These small interludes provide time to collect your thoughts, visualize your day, converse with yourself and otherwise glean the chaff from the wheat.
What's your plan, where are you headed and what's on your mind as the first mile rolls away?
I expect a large number of folks across the fields and fences and cities are headed home to couch, fridge and TV. Good to kick off the shoes and let the hair down. Some need to take a deep breath and wrestle a second job or a long list of unending chores. A moist handful, of course, moves quickly and without obstruction to strategically placed watering holes. Whatever it takes, I guess, to move the pieces across the board.
But wait a minute. There's a rare breed unaccounted for in the above collection of characters. In a certain place where the sun shines and the air is full of oxygen, the navigator of the vehicle steers clear of the traffic and heads to the gym. Thoughts are on grander things, life, love and the pursuit of happiness, or, as interpreted on another level, discipline, patience and the pursuit of pain. Whatever it takes, I'm certain, to improve the worth of life.
You know this singular sort whose habits do not resemble those of his neighbor. His countenance glows, her gait is sure and determination marks her actions.
That rare breed is you.
And the time and place you spend before entering the gym, be it on Main Street or in the garage, are rare as well. As the gym is a refuge and an area for productive work, so is the mind in preparation of a solid, bold and mighty workout. A powerful workout is established in our heads before entering the inner sanctum of the gym's walls.
Compromise, sacrifice, long suffering and discomfort, no one said the task was easy and no one knows but the one who performs it. The groundwork begins in the mind, is effected in the body, transferred to the gym floor and finally to the iron, where it is consummated by the fortitude, courage and heart of the pursuer.
That doesn't mean we don't love it. Even when we hate it, we love it. How can you hate that which is so wonderful and beneficial and, more often than not, fun and fulfilling?
"Self-centeredness -- self-gratification -- is the great deceiver," a ragged sage once said, "and we are easily deceived."
We reach for pleasure and relief and grasp neglect and ruin instead.
I believe in giving each dimension of life its due attention. We are wise not to be dominated by any one area of life to the neglect of another. Easily said but great effort and discipline must be applied to achieve the balance. I've been known to fail and not on rare occasions (sterling humility right there).
But some healthy workout forethought is smart. Anticipating your training with a brief yet energetic review of its benefits -- health and strength, the afterglow, the mental and physical purge, the admirable steps toward achieving goals, the personal investment in goodness and right -- and a positive overview of your exercise scheme is all you need to fill your mind. Fill the mind with these magnificent thoughts and there is no room for the twin enemies of doubt and apathy.
Of course, the well-organized, efficient and successful person makes sure energy and muscle-building stores are supplied in advance. Sufficient food and water must be part of the simple plan. That bottle topped with cool water and a protein drink make the difference in superior mind and body performance.
So simple, so smart, so effective.
Stopping by the gym on the way home for a quickie is admirable -- in this day and age it is remarkable. But to be profitable and long lasting, a workout must be more or it will become less. As you must not let training and thinking about it dominate your life, so is it unwise to squeeze it in like a wedge of lemon in a cup of tea. Unfold a list of your top ten priorities and you'll discover that exercising for your health is among your top five, not a cup of cozy Constant Comment.
Sixty minutes, four days a week is your contribution, from the time you park your car to the time you pull away refreshed. Diligent work in the focused yet unrushed minutes in between defines the physical investment. The rest of the week and the rest of your life are yours to give freely and generously.
This is not to say that good things don't take place without psychological and intellectual preparations. I rely heavily on the unseen work of the subconscious.
You're drawn to the iron by desire, not obligation. You don't have to lift, you want to. There's no pressure, no rush, no ground lost, no ground to make up, just the playground where time floats rather than flies. And so it goes with physical preparation and mental psyche. They happen.
What do you want to do -- what stirs you; what would you like to perfect or investigate, create or devise? The field is open and letting the workout evolve is a relief and can be most instructive.
Sufficient spontaneity is needed to provide freedom in your training without allowing it to become random and loose and unproductive over the long term. Here you may wallow in your favorite exercise combinations, try a personal best, switch to high repetitions for pump and burn and the experience, or you might exact a dumbbell movement to work that part of your deltoid no standard exercise ever has. A little creativity and thinking on our feet goes a long way to add to self-esteem and training maturity.
Invention rings a loud bell.
Hold on to the days and don't let go. Your training is an on-going mission, every challenge a reward. When asked what defeat is, you'll answer, "I don't know."
God's speed, brothers and sisters… DD
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